Elopements
So what do you do after you get engaged?
Congratulations on your engagement! As you revel in the joy of saying “Yes!” to a lifetime together, it’s natural to wonder, “What’s next?” Especially if you’re envisioning a small wedding or an adventurous elopement, the planning process can be both thrilling and, at times, overwhelming. In this guide, we’ll walk you through the essential steps to take after getting engaged, ensuring your journey to the altar is as magical as the proposal itself.
1. Celebrate the Moment:
Before diving into planning, take a moment to savor the joy of your engagement. Share the news with family and friends, celebrate with a special dinner, or plan a weekend getaway together. This is a time to bask in the love you’ve found.
2. Define Your Vision:
Discuss and define your vision for the wedding or elopement. Consider the atmosphere, location, and style you both envision. Are you dreaming of an intimate mountain ceremony, a beachfront exchange of vows, or a forest adventure? Understanding your vision will guide subsequent decisions.
3. Set a Budget:
Determine your budget early on. Whether you’re planning an intimate wedding or an adventurous elopement, having a clear budget in mind will help you make decisions about venue, vendors, and other elements of your celebration.
4. Choose a Date and Location:
Selecting a date and location is crucial, especially if you’re leaning towards a small wedding or an adventure elopement. Consider the season, weather, and the accessibility of your chosen location. Whether it’s a national park, a hidden gem, or a charming intimate venue, ensure it aligns with your vision.
5. Assemble Your A-Team:
For a small wedding or elopement, your vendor choices are key. Consider hiring:
– A photographer to capture your special day and create lasting memories. Not sure where to start? Read this post about finding the right photographer.
– An officiant who aligns with your values and can personalize your ceremony.
– A florist for bouquets, boutonnieres, or any decor you envision.
– A planner or coordinator, especially if you’re planning an adventure elopement.
6. Obtain Necessary Permits:
If you’re opting for an adventurous elopement in a national park or a unique location, be sure to research and obtain any necessary permits or permissions. This ensures a smooth and stress-free celebration in your chosen spot.
7. Plan Your Ceremony:
For a small wedding or elopement, the ceremony is the heart of your celebration. Personalize your vows, choose meaningful readings, and incorporate elements that reflect your love story. Whether it’s an intimate exchange or a grand gesture, make it uniquely yours.
8. Select Your Attire:
Choose attire that suits your style and the chosen location. Whether it’s a traditional gown, a stylish suit, or something more casual for an adventure elopement, make sure you feel comfortable and confident.
9. Plan the Celebration:
Consider how you want to celebrate after the ceremony. Whether it’s a private dinner, a picnic, or a small gathering with loved ones, plan a celebration that reflects your personalities.
10. Capture the Memories:
Invest in a skilled photographer or videographer to capture the magic of your day. These memories will be cherished for a lifetime, so choose professionals who align with your vision.
No doubt you have already considered your photographer at this stage but also consider these things related to photo/video:
Remember, your engagement is a unique and personal journey, and your wedding or elopement should reflect that. By taking these steps and customizing each element to suit your style, you’ll create a celebration that encapsulates the essence of your love story. Cheers to the adventure ahead!
